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Biggest barrier to achieving & setting goals in sales

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We suffer more often in imagination than in reality’ – Seneca

There is a lot of literature and articles available about goal setting and the importance thereof.  Very little has been written about the biggest barrier to achieving our goals (or even being bold enough to set them in the first place) and achieving our potential, namely fear.  Fear of failure or that we are not enough.

Unless we are one of those born with unnerving confidence (often manifesting it self in bluster, belligerence and arrogance) we have that monkey mind nagging away at us telling us your not enough.  We also tend to compare and contrast our inner feelings with others outward show exacerbating this feeling.

This inner critic can get in our own way of trying something that is new and or takes us out of our comfort zone.  We tend also tend to compare and contrast our inner feelings with others outward show!

This blog will draw on the works of the ancient stoics to get our fears out of our own heads and examine them as if there were a defendant on trial.

The first challenge is to clarify what we want to do:

  • Go for a promotion
  • Ask for a raise
  • Start a cold prospecting initiative
  • Speak at an event
  • Taking gym classes
  • Starting to learn a foreign language
  • Start a business

Step 1:  Answer the question …What if I ………………..

Step 2:  Question:  What could possibly go wrong!  Define them all.

Step 3: For each of those reversals identify what we could do that is in our control or influence to proactively prevent the reversal happening in the first place.

Step 4: For each of those reversals defined, if they did happen what could we do to repair it post event.

Step 5:  Write down the benefits of an attempt or partial success in the area identified (the what if I …….)

Step 6:  Write down the cost of doing nothing (inaction) from an emotional, financial and physical perspective, over a 6 month, 1 year and 3 year view point.

The ancient stoics use a term called the premeditation of evils malorum praemeditatione from which this approach has been taken and amended.  Getting our fears out of our heads and objectively analysing them affords us the chance to press on and give us the best opportunity of fulfilling our potential.  ‘Feel the fear but do it anyway’ as Susan Jeffers puts it of her book of the same name.  This whole subject is nicely summed up in Letters from a Stoic by Seneca , even though it was written some 2000 years ago, it seems that those of us living in the 21C could use a dose of this ancient wisdom.

Everyone has greater fortitude in arriving at a situation for which he has long prepared himself, and hardships that have been anticipated can also be withstood. In contrast, utterly trivial things can terrify people who are not prepared for them. We must see to it that we have not overlooked anything. Because everything is more serious when it is new, constant reflection will ensure that you do not face any trouble as a raw recruit. – Seneca, Letter 107.4

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